Tuesday, 24 January 2012

Take Results to your Parents, but not the Process!!!!

Hello dear friends, i think many of you will be wondering about the above title with a confusion, but such of my friends who knows in and out of my life can really Empathize with me and feel the essence in the title. I am here to create awareness among all of  you about this concept which i learnt it when i was speaking to one of my Dental student yesterday, more or less its a lesson learnt in my life by implementing the tips i will be mentioning for you in this Blog.

My blog will remain meaningless if i don't show my gratitude to two of these personalities who stood as guide post, and Mentors in my life i.e. Renowned Inspirational Speaker, Founder and CEO of Inspiration unlimited enterprise Er Sujit Lalwani ji and the Junior version of Sujit Lalwani ji,  Er Bharath G C ji  

Many of us feel very happy by the Achievements of all the stars around us from various fields especially who taught out of the box and did it. We would come across many such examples who used to think differently and struggle a lot and then emerge as a Champions, we really get motivated by their achievements, and all of us would aspire and dream to achieve such a wonderful life which is a common  phenomenon around the globe as many of us know. 

Let me share with you one thing friends, all of us really desire to  lead such a wonderful life, few of them keep dreaming about it, where as rest of them start acting towards it, as they have started a new journey new challenges are bound to come along their way. Many people start pulling legs of such people and discourage them.

With all respect to our elders, the first set of people who pull us back from facing this new challenges are our parents, and don't wonder this happens only due to the love and care what they have upon you and their exposure towards the current world scenario, this will make other few people to step away from their pursuit of dreams. Hence it is so common that only few people will emerge as champions after going through lots of pain.

My main Intention of writing this blog is to info you all about few things you need to be aware of yourself  once when you are planning to achieve something differently.

1) When you are planning your destiny, beware of all possible hurdles that will come along your journey, but some of them you will get to know only as you proceed towards your destiny.
2) Ask yourself these following questions when you plan your destiny:
         a) Will you be proud about yourself once you achieve the destiny.
         b) Will Your Society will feel Great for you once you achieve it.
         c) Will your Friends feel Great for you once you achieve it.
         d) Will your PARENTS feel Great for you once you achieve it.
NOTE: All of the above mentioned tips conveys once you achieve it,  but not along the Path..
3) Convey your idea and take valuable suggestions from your mentors or people who have done it in a similar way in which you are planning to achieve.
4) Convey your parents only such things which makes them fell lighter and ask them for their moral support and after once you get the result celebrate with them and then convey the Process. [It Should be like: UNDER PROMISE,  SUPER  DELIVERY]
5) Become deaf for the critics, and focus on what you need not only on what others say.

All  these above points are the combination of the Learnings which i received  from both of my mentors and experiences from my own life during my Post Graduation. As of now i am just tasting the fruits of the Successful Completion of my PG officially, when i look back the struggle i had undergone, the critics which i got during the process really feels proud for the Patience i had during that time.

Thanks a Lot My dear GOD for this Kind life, Its my Request to you that "I will give the Best in me towards my goals, bless my life with Best Showers with you.

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