Many a times when we feel that we have not done the work up to our ability we feel like justifying ourself by giving reasons so that we can get satisfied for ourself. But when we give reasons instead of thinking the ideas for getting the task done we are limiting our potential to that extent itself. Hope we have come across with enough number of examples like a child giving a reason to his teacher about not completing the given home work, or not performing up to the mark, a wife giving a justification for her husband about the incomplete work and viceversa, or the reason an employee gives to their employers or vice versa, or a government justifying for the incomplete work and what not. In all these cases we have given enough set of reasons for not completing the work. Some times even we come up with a genuine resaonswhich also has a reason in it. So when i thought about the causes and effect for giving reasons i found preety important things which need to be focussed upon.
First thing i would like to convey the effects that happens when we come up with a reason. When we come up with a reason again may it be genuine or no genuine we will be closing the door for further ideas which we may get, next thing that happens is that when we find that resaon we have given is accepted we will stick our potential to that particular ability itself, and we forget that it woud have been raised for the next level which is not all a problem when we refocus again.
The causes for giving resons may be many but i can sum it up in four letters i.e.FEAR, sounds familiar right, that is the only area upon which we should be foccused to remove the attitude of giving reasons. So lets have an attitude of looking in to the world which is beyond the fear. If we can take out the fear all that matters is just an action to complete the task. Rejoice if you win or Relearn if you fail but dont give up by comming up with a reason.
Last Punch: When we forget the word REASON all we have is a SEASON of ACCOMPLISHMENT, lets Experience it at one shot because life is only once!!!
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