Tuesday 24 January 2012

Keep your dream!!!

Hello dear friends this is story all about a child who had a very big dream but unfortunately due to his family financial situation he will blamed and discouraged by his school teacher but with his commitment he will turn it in to reality as he had planned by his dedication and hard work. All thanks to my Mentors Er Sujit Lalwani ji and Bharath G C ji for this Wonderful message "The Easiest way for Success is Hard Work". This article is narrated as i received it from the source, Happy Reading!!!!

I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro. He has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money for youth at risk programs.

The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, “I want to tell you why I let Jack use my horse. It all goes back to a story about a young man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable to stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training horses. As a result, the boy’s high school career was continually interrupted. When he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted to be and do when he grew up.

“That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday owning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch.

“He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he handed it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after class.’

“The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked, `Why did I receive an F?’
“The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you. You have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources. Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land. You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you’ll have to pay large stud fees. There’s no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will reconsider your grade.’

“The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father what he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for you.’ “Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same paper, making no changes at all.
He stated, “You can keep the F and I’ll keep my dream.”

Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, “I tell you this story because you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the fireplace.” He added, “The best part of the story is that two summers ago that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.” When the teacher was leaving, he said, “Look, Monty, I can tell you this now. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption not to give up on yours.”
                


                     “Don’t let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what.”


Take Results to your Parents, but not the Process!!!!

Hello dear friends, i think many of you will be wondering about the above title with a confusion, but such of my friends who knows in and out of my life can really Empathize with me and feel the essence in the title. I am here to create awareness among all of  you about this concept which i learnt it when i was speaking to one of my Dental student yesterday, more or less its a lesson learnt in my life by implementing the tips i will be mentioning for you in this Blog.

My blog will remain meaningless if i don't show my gratitude to two of these personalities who stood as guide post, and Mentors in my life i.e. Renowned Inspirational Speaker, Founder and CEO of Inspiration unlimited enterprise Er Sujit Lalwani ji and the Junior version of Sujit Lalwani ji,  Er Bharath G C ji  

Many of us feel very happy by the Achievements of all the stars around us from various fields especially who taught out of the box and did it. We would come across many such examples who used to think differently and struggle a lot and then emerge as a Champions, we really get motivated by their achievements, and all of us would aspire and dream to achieve such a wonderful life which is a common  phenomenon around the globe as many of us know. 

Let me share with you one thing friends, all of us really desire to  lead such a wonderful life, few of them keep dreaming about it, where as rest of them start acting towards it, as they have started a new journey new challenges are bound to come along their way. Many people start pulling legs of such people and discourage them.

With all respect to our elders, the first set of people who pull us back from facing this new challenges are our parents, and don't wonder this happens only due to the love and care what they have upon you and their exposure towards the current world scenario, this will make other few people to step away from their pursuit of dreams. Hence it is so common that only few people will emerge as champions after going through lots of pain.

My main Intention of writing this blog is to info you all about few things you need to be aware of yourself  once when you are planning to achieve something differently.

1) When you are planning your destiny, beware of all possible hurdles that will come along your journey, but some of them you will get to know only as you proceed towards your destiny.
2) Ask yourself these following questions when you plan your destiny:
         a) Will you be proud about yourself once you achieve the destiny.
         b) Will Your Society will feel Great for you once you achieve it.
         c) Will your Friends feel Great for you once you achieve it.
         d) Will your PARENTS feel Great for you once you achieve it.
NOTE: All of the above mentioned tips conveys once you achieve it,  but not along the Path..
3) Convey your idea and take valuable suggestions from your mentors or people who have done it in a similar way in which you are planning to achieve.
4) Convey your parents only such things which makes them fell lighter and ask them for their moral support and after once you get the result celebrate with them and then convey the Process. [It Should be like: UNDER PROMISE,  SUPER  DELIVERY]
5) Become deaf for the critics, and focus on what you need not only on what others say.

All  these above points are the combination of the Learnings which i received  from both of my mentors and experiences from my own life during my Post Graduation. As of now i am just tasting the fruits of the Successful Completion of my PG officially, when i look back the struggle i had undergone, the critics which i got during the process really feels proud for the Patience i had during that time.

Thanks a Lot My dear GOD for this Kind life, Its my Request to you that "I will give the Best in me towards my goals, bless my life with Best Showers with you.

Thursday 19 January 2012

The Best way to give your Best Performance, is to START PERFORMING

Hello dear friends,  after a long gap, i am here to share one of my learning with you all with a real time experience of mine. we would have been seen someone doing this or sometimes we have done it ourself, when we plan to do some thing new, many of us will wait  for some precise time and get every thing arranged, and then go for trial show b4 the Real show in the name of practicing so that we can perform best, i sincerely appreciate all of them who follow this methodology and taste the sweetest results in their pursuit. But  without hurting any one's way of learning and execution, i am all exited to share this experience of mine, which really made me to learn, reinforce, and promise you to keep reinforcing all the time. As many of you know i am working in education institution as a lecturer i was allotted a Software assisted subject related to Engineering drawing which was first time in my career, so all i knew is not even the basics of that subject and a challenge i put on myself that I WILL DO IT, i started preparing with the ample amount of time available b4 the semester starts, but unfortunately i met with an Accident due to which i was put on bed for 15 days. Then all i wanted to do is to teach directly with the ample amount of preparation i could make, so that i will start the teaching without any reasons. With the Support of my Colleagues, our Head of the Dept, the Inspiration of our Beloved mentors OYW ambassador Er Sujit Lalwani ji, and his junior version Bharath G C ji and with the positive approach and sincere efforts to give my best for my students at the Receiver end,  i could able to teach completely with a over all rating of around 94% from the students. Hope fully when every thing fall in place i have no doubt in cracking 100% result in this subject (you need 2 wait atleast next 2 months for the results).  Let me tell you once again my dear friends, Rather than thinking that i am teaching to some one, the way of teaching was a sought of learning for myself may be that Learning  Attitude in me made me to Start Performing first, which brought me the Best performance out of me. Promise you all  That this is not even a Beginning!!! let me quote this which i read in one of the Robin Sharma's Book b4 i end this blog  "Remember WHO YOU are, she said. YOU're  a MASTER" -Aniesa Tahmes. Promise you all to emerge as a Champion and create such champions in a very near future. Never forget to leave your valuable comments about this blog.

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